Spiritual care coordinator brings prayer, hope to cancer patients
By KARA KOCZUR, Globe staff reporter
May 29, 2008
It's Friday morning as Sister Janet Schumacher passes through the
chemotherapy area at the June E. Nylen Cancer Center in Sioux City.
With a smile on her face, the cancer center's spiritual care coordinator
tells patients and their
family or friends "Good morning!" and asks,
"How are you?"
Not only do many respond to the question, but they ask, "How are
you?" back. It's something that astounds Sister Schumacher.
"Even in the midst of their struggle. . .they're still focused on the
other," she said. "It's a complete grace of God for me."
Sister Schumacher has been the spiritual care coordinator, or chaplain, of
the Nylen Cancer Center for the past five years. Her job at the cancer center is
to provide spiritual and emotional support for cancer patients and their
families.
Daily routine
She begins each day the same way, by picking up the patient list and by
gathering any requests for spiritual care. Sister Schumacher then goes through
the list, praying for each patient.
"I like to pray by name for each patient," she said. "Prayer
is so foundational."
With a marker she highlights the new patients, those who may need follow-up
visits and those who have been referred by doctors or nurses. She sees the
patients either by making rounds or by their request. Many times she is stopped
in the hallway by people asking for prayers and spiritual care, she said.
"Just the other day a dear lady came and stopped me in the hallway and
said, 'Are you Sister so-and-so?' I said, 'yes,'" Sister Schumacher
recalled. "Tears started coming down her cheeks and she said, 'I don't know
what to do. My husband has cancer again and he isn't getting any better.'"
The biggest struggle Sister Schumacher said the patients have is what she
refers to as the "meaning question."
"A lot them [ask] "What's this all about? I don't understand. Why
is this happening to me?" she said.
Inspiration
Sister Schumacher, a Presentation Sister of 47 years, is familiar with cancer
and the effect it can have on family members. Her mother had colon cancer, and a
few months before she died in 1982, her father was also diagnosed with the early
stages of cancer.
Her desire to work with cancer patients stemmed from her mother's battle with
the disease.
"She was such an inspiration to me," she said in her soft-spoken
voice. "In the back of my mind I thought, 'Someday I want to work with
cancer patients.'"
Twenty-two years later, after teaching at a grade school, working in campus
ministry at Loyola University in Chicago and coordinating retreats, that dream
came true. The cancer center's former chaplain, overwhelmed by work at the
center and at her second job at the hospital, asked Sister Schumacher if she
would be willing to apply for the position.
Peace instantly flowed through her, Sister Schumacher said, and she knew that
it was where she was supposed to be.
Sister Schumacher believes she helps the patients most by listening, praying
for their needs and reflecting back to them how God speaks through them.
Needed ministry
Mary Jane Fitch, the resource and community education coordinator at the
center, will often refer patients to Sister Schumacher and they run the general
and leukemia lymphoma cancer support group together.
Sister Schumacher's ministry is very much needed at the cancer center, Fitch
said.
"She gives [patients] reassurance and comfort," said Fitch, who has
been at the center since before it opened in 1995. "She is very
compassionate and caring. Whether [the patients] have bad news or not, she's
always there for them and helps them on their journey."
They teach her
Although Sister Schumacher ministers to the patients by doing small things
called "spirit lifters," passing out support literature on issues such
as grief, living with cancer, helping kids deal with cancer and more, working
with hospice and planning a memorial service twice a year, she stressed that the
patients give her way more in return.
"I feel that the patients and families are such an inspiration to me and
the staff by their courage and gratitude for blessings that we normally take for
granted," she said. "They have so much to teach us as a society about
what's really important in life: faith and family."
Sister Schumacher takes inspiring words of wisdom from past patients, such as
"Fear not to trust an unknown future to a known God," and puts them on
posters hung in the center, hoping that current patients will find them
inspiring as well.
She even finds their words inspiring to herself. She recalled one lady who
not only had cancer, but was raising her two teenage grandchildren also. The
lady would quote her Russian grandmother by saying, "Thank you God for this
much."
"I still have the prayer right here," she said, pulling a yellow
sticky note from amidst funeral announcements on a bulletin board near her desk.
"I need to remember that."
People will ask her if it's depressing to work at the cancer center, Sister
Schumacher said, to which she replies that after five years she's not depressed
yet.
"I feel mostly inspired," she added. "I'm not saying I don't
feel sad, [but] sad is an emotion, depression is getting stuck in that."