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Diocese trains 22 new facilitators for safe environment program

Positive response to facilitator training

By RENEE WEBB, Globe editor

Twenty-two people who are involved in various ministries of the Diocese of Sioux City participated in the VIRTUS Facilitator Training held Sept. 8 and 9.

One person who opted to give of his time to serve as a new facilitator for the Protecting God's Children safe environment program by VIRTUS is Deacon Bob Larsen. He is the pastoral director for Bishop Garrigan Schools and serves as a deacon at St. Cecelia Church in Algona.

He decided to volunteer to serve as a facilitator because he believes the "process of VIRTUS is very good and if we are going to make sure that it is carried out to its fullest then we who are out in the diocese need to volunteer to do this."

Deacon Larsen acknowledged that he was asked by his principal to go through the training and he agreed. Serving as a facilitator, he noted, can be incorporated into his ministry as an educator as well as in his service as a deacon.

"I thought the training was very informative and was well presented," he said. "I learned a lot and came away believing that I knew more about the VIRTUS program. Every once in a while we attend workshops and we are not sure that it was worth your time away from school and church, but I definitely believe this one was."

Deacon Larsen said he hoped that everyone approached the VIRTUS training sessions with a very positive attitude along with the knowledge that this process has been put in place to protect the children.

Father Steven McLoud, pastor at St. Columbkille in Churdan and St. Paul in Scranton, said, "It was an intense few days but then again so was the subject matter."

He very much appreciates the fact that he was able to work in Catholic schools in the first few years of his ministry as a priest. With that in mind, he views children as one of God's greatest gifts.

"I realize that they depend upon us for so many things. They look to their parents and teachers, to priests and religious, for guidance and wisdom. The kids are curious to learn about Jesus and Mary and they really need to feel that they are loved and that they are safe," stressed Father McLoud.

Through the facilitator training, he said he realized that the Protecting God's Children Program was a process and not a one-shot training period. The process is designed to give the teachers, parents and others important information they need to know about child sexual abuse.

"The program gives us the tools we need to help parents, teachers, catechists and other interested parishioners the warning signs of a child that might possibly be sexually abused. It also gives us an opportunity as facilitators to help them be alert to a potential abuser and then teach them how we can work together as a parish or community to help prevent child sexual abuse. The fact is that it can happen anywhere to anyone," said Father McLoud.

He wanted to make this a part of his ministry because he believes that the safe of children is so important.

"I think it is important for parents to realize that when they entrust their kids into our care for any length of time, they are in a safe place," he said.

Nancy Michels, pastoral minister at the parishes in Rock Valley, Alvord and Sioux Center as well as DRE at St. Patrick in Sheldon, pointed out that she participated in the training because she was aware that the Northwest Deanery needed representation in regards to available facilitators. She also feels strongly about this effort by the church to keep children safe.

"I have been through several other trainings as I have worked with church and civic organizations and I find this one to be the strongest in terms of both educating the teacher or youth minister to be wary of adults who might prey on young children," she said. "It also comes at it from a prevention standpoint where as other programs ask you to identify abuse after the fact."

She is confident that the training prepared her well to facilitate training sessions.

The fact that this diocese has trained over 6,000 people, Michels noted, sends the message that this program is "meant to touch the grassroots and meant to change the environment and improve the safety for all of our young children."

By RENEE WEBB, Globe editor
September 16, 2004

Two master facilitators of the Protecting God's Children safe environment program by Larger image available VIRTUS trained 22 new facilitators for the Diocese of Sioux City at a two-day session held Sept. 8 and 9 at Immaculate Conception Church in Sioux City.

The master facilitators were Margaret Fuentes and Kevin Vickery, co-coordinators of the safe environment program in the Diocese of Sioux City.

"We are the first diocese to be named as master trainers and be training our own facilitators," noted Fuentes, who added that this cutting edge concept is a nice symmetry with the fact that the entire concept of Protecting God's Children was the brainchild of Msgr. Kevin McCoy, former chancellor of the diocese.

In addition to the 22 newly trained facilitators, eight others were trained as facilitators last year. This brings the pool of people who are trained to present the VIRTUS sessions in parishes and schools throughout the diocese up to 30.

"With 30 facilitators, we will certainly be able to be more effective in being able to provide the awareness training programs in the parishes and schools," noted Vickery.

The broad range of people who participated in the training pleased them. The mix included parish religious education leaders, two priests, a deacon, women religious, Catholic school administrators and others.

Fuentes called it a very good cross section of talented and dedicated people.

"One of the goals is to have facilitators more evenly spread throughout the diocese so that we have people who are able to do sessions closer to home," said Vickery, who added that they were able to accomplish that goal.

While the coverage is better than in the past, both master facilitators mentioned that they would train additional facilitators in the next 12 months. The long-range goal is to have a facilitator in each school and one in each parish cluster. This way, more VIRTUS sessions can be offered on the local level.

"In the first year we focused on employees and volunteers who work with children. In this second year, I would like to see every parent who sends their child to a Catholic school, a parish religious education program or youth ministry program attend a VIRTUS awareness session so they have the same knowledge as those they have entrusted their children to," said Vickery.

He pointed out that the more people - parents as well as other interested adults - who understand the issues of child sexual abuse and learn the warning signs, the better. The knowledge parents can gain through the VIRTUS sessions can be applied to other activities in which their children participate such as sports programs and public school settings.

"We have areas of greater concentration of the Catholic population - where there are some of our stronger Catholic school systems - where we could easily have two or three facilitators in that location," said Fuentes.

Both master facilitators stressed the fact that the safe environment program is not a project that the diocese is currently working on, but rather is an ongoing process.

Along with heading up the safe environment program, Fuentes and Vickery had served as facilitators this past year. As master facilitators, they noted that their role would now shift, focusing more on serving as resource persons for the other facilitators rather than leading local VIRTUS sessions.

"I am anxious to step back from the role of doer of the training, to helping to manage the team and provide stronger administrative support and have the opportunity to do more long-range planning," said Fuentes.

Employees or volunteers who work on a regular basis with children that were slated to be trained last year have until Oct. 31 to attend a VIRTUS session. New employees or volunteers have 90 days to attend.